Coping Emotionally

There are several simple factors in life that make this a very difficult world to navigate emotionally. Beliefs: We humans fail to realise that the word beliefs does not mean right. Our beliefs are generated by our life experience, and may make no sense to other people who have lived a different kind of life.ContinueContinue reading “Coping Emotionally”

Be Yourself – Live Your Life

Compromising the self leaves you not knowing who you are, never feeling right, and always being asked more of. Some thoughts about why you shouldn’t do that.

Stuff, Money, and Nonsense.

Comparing the life of a blogging friend from the Philippines, to my experience of life in the UK. Very different lives, both have positives, but one clearly wins on natural living and family connection.

Guide for Thinkers #2

Tell me what you want, what you really, really want.The Spice girls – wannabe Do you know? Has it ever felt important to you that you know? Not just what you want, but what you really, really, want? Or are you living your life via a compromise. ‘This’ll do’ is no way to live. ThisContinueContinue reading “Guide for Thinkers #2”

Guide 4 Thinkers

This blog was inspired by an excellent blog on here by Guide4Thinkers (@guidethinkers975). It engaged my mind on the subjects of what I call the myths we’re raised with. Things made to feel important but that in fact don’t exist, even though it feels very much that they do. Even though what I’m about toContinueContinue reading “Guide 4 Thinkers”

Hit a Brick Wall?

Are you feeling that you’ve been struggling to move forward, yet for every step you take you seem to be taking three steps backwards? Ever thought you’re going in the wrong direction, or doing something you don’t authentically, in your heart, want to do? That’s often the bit we don’t think about. Could this beContinueContinue reading “Hit a Brick Wall?”

Double Edged Swords

Today’s writing prompt, or one three years ago depending on when you’re reading this, inspired me to think about the ways that we humans are so unaware of our impact. How we look at things only one way, when there is at least one more way they can be viewed. How our word comes fromContinueContinue reading “Double Edged Swords”

Alone but Not Lonely

Do you suffer from loneliness? This is a long blog but this is a complex question with many potential causes. I suggest that you look at just the ones that resonate with you if you’re not into long reads. On the other hand it may help you identify what triggers your feelings of loneliness. So,ContinueContinue reading “Alone but Not Lonely”

Hard to Say

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why? Minds don’t stay in one place for long. I’m not a fan of looking back unless it’s to good memories. I do like to mull my way forward sometimes, but then that can be to miss the here and now, which isContinueContinue reading “Hard to Say”

Blame -v- Responsibility

I’m learning something new that is based on taking total responsibility for your life, for everything that happens to you, even when someone else has done whatever it is. So if someone is unpleasant to you, you were in that place at that time, and so you take responsibility. You may feel like stopping readingContinueContinue reading “Blame -v- Responsibility”