My Why

Is you!

As a person I have been very hurt in life. Although I was never abused physically I would say that I’ve been subject to emotional abuse for a lot of my life. When I realised the damage that caused I took steps to deal with it and try to become a better person.

I suffered from acute anxiety for many years and managed to beat that with a great deal of help, and the input of spiritual beliefs. Those years are behind me now but they left me with a compassion that makes me want to help others, particularly those who ‘nothing happened’ to.

Nothing happened?

There are people out there who have been desperately hurt. Betrayed, abused physically and mentally, raped, assaulted. Struggling with disability with insufficient help. People let down by parents, society, the school system, which can leave people on the scrapheap of life with no hope simply because they learn differently.

Then there are people who seem to have led a charmed life, yet they carry the damage of their past and it has an effect. I was raised in a family situation that looked good but was anything but. There were mental health issues which impacted me and my brother, a toxic family situation. Together with many small things that all added up to me being told by a long-term family friend that I’d had the hardest life emotionally of anyone she’d ever met and I didn’t deserve a moment of it.

My why is to help and support anyone without judgement, with love, and using my psychic ability to understand them. Because when I needed help a friend stepped in, and now I step in, friend or not. You might think your problems are trivial, but if they hurt you that matters.

Your happiness matters to me. Everyone deserves happiness.

Permanent help at home

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This is a handbook, as it says, because I became fed up with people telling me who I was and how I needed to change. I didn’t find that helpful as there were far too many different opinions in play, so I wrote a map book, you choose the starting point and destination and I’ll suggest the routes you can take.

No adult needs telling what to do and how to do it. Most adults who are feeling lost are that way because people have told them who they are and what to do and when. All you need to do is keep the programming that works, ditch what doesn’t, and literally re-make up your own mind.

It can be done. I did it.

To your happiness

Deb xx