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If you had to give one life-changing tip, what would it be? I know this subject matter is something of a bandwagon for me, but it’s truly the voice of my heart. Taking it out to the nth degree, happiness does not murder, maim, rape, abuse, or start wars. Bringing it back to the personal,ContinueContinue reading “Choose Happiness Always”

What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do? These questions are interesting and challenging, but also impossible to answer. What represents most people? 8 billion? How would I know what they can and can’t do? I don’t know what my neighbours can and can’t do. Obviously with theContinueContinue reading “How on Earth Would I Know?”

Who is the fictional character you relate to the most? I like his quiet strength. He was a leader who didn’t have to throw his weight about, he led from a position of knowledge and quiet respect. If you have to bully you’re not a leader. His team looked to him to steady them, whenContinueContinue reading “Clever Question”

Do you think everything happens for a reason? Exactly this. Plus does everything happen for your reasons, or for reasons generated by others, both or neither? Does fate exist? Do the stars align for some people and not others? If not why not? Does attitude drive what happens? Good attitude = good things for goodContinueContinue reading “Everything?”

What’s your home decoration style? I hate decorating Plus I can’t ‘feel’ this house. Only one room is right and Tony chose the wallpaper and colours. Our last two houses were brilliant. Not gorgeous designer type style, but the colours worked. I feel that this house needs more light and warmth. Yet Tony chose aContinueContinue reading “Random”

What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever? In my life I’ve loved them allThe Beatles I came here as love to do nothing but love, and my capacity for love is endless. At the moment there’s a bull in a tv advert that I just want to hug it’s so beautiful. ThankfullyContinueContinue reading “In My Life”

If you could rewrite any book’s ending, which one would you choose? To do this would be to contravene all the above As such I would never do such a thing. That’s someone else’s work, part of their soul, who am I to change that? Which is another way of saying that yet again IContinueContinue reading “Respect for Fellow Writers”

What’s your biggest dream? Nero This cat has life sussed. He’s well fed, well loved, and well spoiled. He deserves it all. He teaches you how to chill, how to be in the present moment. At the vets he saunters out of his box, strolls around the surgery, stretches out on the floor, then whenContinueContinue reading “The Simple Things”

What’s a promise you made to yourself that you’ve actually kept? Kids can get away with this. – adults can’t My mother taught me as a child that ‘I’m sorry’ and ‘thank you’ are actions not words. That’s where this commitment started. She said that if you are sorry you never do or say thatContinueContinue reading “To Be Kind and Respectful”

If you could have dinner with any fictional character, who would it be? I did think of Mr Spock and then I couldn’t think why. He may be too logical for a creative writer. Then I thought of Mr Darcy from Pride and Prejudice but you’d probably find that the romantic version in the bookContinueContinue reading “After Following a Train of Thought…”