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Difficult Question

When are you most happy? For the past 39 years the answer has been ‘when I’m with my cats’ and it still is. It would also include ‘when I’m with my husband’ but he has such a demanding job that’s it’s rare that he can fully relax. Somehow I feel that he would agree withContinueContinue reading “Difficult Question”

Ouch

What was the last thing you did for play or fun? Fun hasn’t been a major part of my life for many years. I used to have a lot of fun, but not nowadays. I think the lack of fun is what has made writing so hard. You need a high vibration for the creativeContinueContinue reading “Ouch”

Stating the Obvious

Am I right?No I think I am.Are you sure?Sure as I can be, yes.But I’m sure I’m rightAnd that feels right.This is weird.Okay we’re different peopleBut surely that doesn’t changeWrong and right?Does it?I think it must.Yes, but how?Perhaps because my experience…Is not my experience?Which means that my reality…Is not mine.Wow.Do you like rhubarb?No it’s disgusting.YetContinueContinue reading “Stating the Obvious”

Easy

List your top 5 grocery store items. Cat food. Chocolate. Food doesn’t really interest me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Deb xx

A Tale of Two and More (Wo)Men

Describe a man who has positively impacted your life. Keith McFarlane, my mentor. But then his partner Lesley was equally impactful. My husband. My Frister Katrina, who lets me be myself. My oldest friend Kim, who is me. We get each other completely. Anton du Beke for creating success out of an impossible challenge andContinueContinue reading “A Tale of Two and More (Wo)Men”

I didn’t picture anything

Is your life today what you pictured a year ago? We’re in a weird trap at the moment. One a lot of people would like to be in. Yet oddly it is a trap. My husband works for a start up company with great potential. They’re doing well and adding to their numbers regularly. WhenContinueContinue reading “I didn’t picture anything”

You Are NOT Your Bank Balance

One of the little pieces of blackmail I have always ‘loved’ is that if you don’t charge enough for your work you don’t value yourself and other people won’t believe in you. That, or charging weeds out the losers. To a certain extent that is true, because some people value money in the wrong way.ContinueContinue reading “You Are NOT Your Bank Balance”

Mind Exercise

What skills or lessons have you learned recently? The terrible trio In a world where it’s so easy to lose hours noodling away on one of these expensive distractions, Googling one thing that leads to another, or catching up on social media – if that’s even possible – it’s more important than ever to trainContinueContinue reading “Mind Exercise”

The Capitals

What cities do you want to visit? I once sat under the Eiffel Tower on a hot summer evening, having spent 10 hours just walking the streets of Paris. It was magical. I’ve also been to Rome, where the atmosphere in St Peter’s blew me away, and the juxtaposition of ancient and modern Rome wasContinueContinue reading “The Capitals”

They Can Trust Me

Tell us one thing you hope people say about you. I was raised in such a bad way, in a toxic family, I decided when I was 26 that I would rebuild myself. I would decide what a decent person was and I would become that person. That was as a result of meeting myContinueContinue reading “They Can Trust Me”