It’s Attainable

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What does “having it all” mean to you? Is it attainable?

If you know who you are, where to look, what to look for, and define yourself.

For me personally, having it all isn’t about possessions, holidays, a great house. I’ve got to an age where I know the meaning of my life, what I care about and what I need.

Mind struggles

A recent situation has forced me to look at the pain in my life and let it go. It’s no exaggeration to say that it started before I was born and just didn’t stop. If I were minded to list what happened you may not even believe it. I’m not. Not anymore.

That is not to say that I didn’t have good times, great times, it is not in my nature to be unhappy. What I didn’t realise though was that there was a river of mental anguish running below all that, and I did not realise how deep and painful it was.

I’m glad I understand now and I’m glad it’s gone. I didn’t deserve it and I certainly don’t need it. No one does.

Having it all

Is personal. You shouldn’t judge yourself for wanting the best. If that’s a multimillion (insert your currency) house, so be it. As long as it makes you feel good, happy, at peace, relaxed. Happy and content in your heart and mind.

It’s when we think external things will make us feel good that we go wrong. Having the right house is good. Buying another diamond to cheer yourself up for a bit isn’t.

I did a lot of shopping as a younger woman, because a new jumper or dress cheered me up for a short while. I also got to talk to someone in a day. I don’t need that now.

My personal all

Is simply to feel good and know that the people and pets I love feel the same. There is nothing more I need.

Money to keep us safe is nice, and I welcome and appreciate it. But peace of mind and body is what makes my life perfect.

Feeling good – that’s my all. It’s my everything. I can make the rest work.

With special thanks to my Guide Amos who has clearly been working hard during the night to help me. That past pain is gone.

Let yours go too.

Best love

Amorah – Deb

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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