Tell me what you want, what you really, really want.The Spice girls – wannabe Do you know? Has it ever felt important to you that you know? Not just what you want, but what you really, really, want? Or are you living your life via a compromise. ‘This’ll do’ is no way to live. ThisContinueContinue reading “Guide for Thinkers #2”
Category Archives: Life success
Guide 4 Thinkers
This blog was inspired by an excellent blog on here by Guide4Thinkers (@guidethinkers975). It engaged my mind on the subjects of what I call the myths we’re raised with. Things made to feel important but that in fact don’t exist, even though it feels very much that they do. Even though what I’m about toContinueContinue reading “Guide 4 Thinkers”
Hard to Say
Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why? Minds don’t stay in one place for long. I’m not a fan of looking back unless it’s to good memories. I do like to mull my way forward sometimes, but then that can be to miss the here and now, which isContinueContinue reading “Hard to Say”
I Said What?
It’s coming up to that time of year again. The post Christmas tradition of working out what you want for the coming year, and making your resolutions. Which will probably be forgotten half way through January. Familiar story? There is a way to avoid this tradition and make it work for you. Do a visionContinueContinue reading “I Said What?”
The Power of Public Speaking
About 15 years ago there was a study undertaken in America asking what people’s biggest fear was. Dying came second, public speaking came first. There is an organisation for adults called Toastmasters International, it truly is international. If you lack confidence give it a try, they specialise in the terrified. Find a way to teachContinueContinue reading “The Power of Public Speaking”
Define ‘It’
If you don’t change ITThen IT won’t changeMe – learning the hard way This was one of my key pieces of learning during my journey from chaos and acute anxiety. You can look around you for help, outside you, consult experts, read the best books, talk to all your friends, and all of this isContinueContinue reading “Define ‘It’”
Just for You
To my fellow bloggers who seek to help, to entertain, to create change. Especially the many who write about peace, share helpful advice, reach out their hands across borders, across perceived barriers, to chat to people of different races, creeds, and cultures. Who share insights into other worlds, which is so important for connection. ThisContinueContinue reading “Just for You”
The Social Media Myth
I’ve been on social media for over a decade, maybe nearer 2 decades. I used to enjoy it, it was a place to connect with others, meet new people, I honestly thought that I would make new friends that I could meet. I have had some luck with that. I initially joined to connect withContinueContinue reading “The Social Media Myth”
The Bletchley Park Effect
Home of the Code Breakers The Code Breakers were the British Team that broke the Enigma Code during WWII, and helped to end the war and prevent a huge loss of life. The visit was a good one, not as informative as I expected in some ways, but it was wonderful to stand in AlanContinueContinue reading “The Bletchley Park Effect”
A Hairy Story
As I’ve already played with the idea of five fruits, aka the daily prompt, I had to come up with something different. This is so true of me It’s taken me over 8 years to find a decent hairdresser in my area. One appeared to be good, but the colourist translated ‘never bleach my hair’ContinueContinue reading “A Hairy Story”