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Category Archives: Snippets of Wisdom
My Right to Feel
Share a lesson you wish you had learned earlier in life. What I feel. I always thought I was wrong when I was actually always right for me. All decisions must be internal. Take advice yes, but ultimately stand or fall by your own choices, and you will be far more likely to stand. It’sContinueContinue reading “My Right to Feel”
Three Things – Better Than
The need to be ‘better than’ arises from fear of not being good enough. Even billionaires suffer from it, as witnessed with Musk and Zuckerberg. Talking about a cage fight because apparently being wildly rich and successful isn’t enough, there has to be more. In this world we judge by race, by skin colour, by gender, byContinueContinue reading “Three Things – Better Than”
Wisdom – Snippet
What actually is wisdom? Is it life experience? A philosophy? The words of the great thinkers? An insight into human nature? Or is it a deep knowledge of yourself, who you are, what you need, what works for you? It’s all those things, but wisdom is only worthwhile if you use the knowledge to createContinueContinue reading “Wisdom – Snippet”
Mind Games
The mind is a fluid object. Constantly being updated but not necessarily upgraded. The pile who really maintain control of their mind meditate everyday. Just as we exercise the body we need techniques to keep the mind healthy. Happiness will help. Good decisions will help. Being in your truth and acting on it will help.ContinueContinue reading “Mind Games”
Happiness – Snippet
People will tell you that happiness isn’t possible, don’t believe them, that will only make you miserable too. Thinking like that can lead to a long life of believing the worst, not trusting life, and sticking with all the wrong decisions because if it isn’t possible to be happy, why bother changing anything. Might asContinueContinue reading “Happiness – Snippet”
Lousy Decision Maker (snippet)
Reasons for being unable to make a decision: You really don’t care. You really don’t mind what you do and are genuinely happy to fit in. Available decisions don’t sound appealing (it’s hard to choose the least worst when they all suck). You don’t want either job (because you’re in the wrong career?). You’ve beenContinueContinue reading “Lousy Decision Maker (snippet)”
Too Kind? (Snippet)
It’s possible to be too kind. The acid test is: Are you hurting yourself being kind? Are you being taken for granted? When you turn round are those people there for you? Are you the one everyone turns to, but the one never invited to parties and gatherings? If you realise that your kindness isContinueContinue reading “Too Kind? (Snippet)”
Not Listening? (Snippet)
When people refuse to hear what you say and constantly challenge rather than discuss: Step 1: stop speaking Step 2: walk away There are none so deaf as those who can only hear their own thoughts and opinions. Hearing aids won’t help. Deb xx