What are you most proud of in your life? I have no idea. I’ve rebuilt myself into a better person but I still make mistakes and I don’t forgive them easily. I’m a born public speaker, but it took me years to understand why I talk so much when I’m with people. There’s a theoryContinueContinue reading “Awkward Question”
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Happiness
What have you been working on? I read something very interesting this morning, in a nutshell it said that fame and fortune can be destructive, unless you can move to a place where you get your sense of self from inside. Where you don’t need others and fame to validate you. I was always seenContinueContinue reading “Happiness”
I’d Like to be That Interesting
What’s something most people don’t know about you? Me trying to think of something mysterious about me! That’s made my brain hurt. I’m pretty much an open book. When the term WYSIWYG (wizzywig) first appeared in computing I realised it applied equally to me. For those who don’t remember the switch, it meant that youContinueContinue reading “I’d Like to be That Interesting”
Never Mind
When I realised as a child That I was always going to be wrong I didn’t think ‘never mind’ I just felt hurt When I wasn’t allowed to go to university And those hopes and dreams were stopped I didn’t think it then either I just felt lost Through decades of hurts That never neededContinueContinue reading “Never Mind”
Lazy Crazy
Do lazy days make you feel rested or unproductive? This is a good question. If I feel great then a lazy day makes me feel rested unless I suddenly get bored which makes me feel edgy. Cats also need a lot of attention, loved cats are never independent, they have routines, expectations, habits, specific mealContinueContinue reading “Lazy Crazy”
On Society: The Other-hood of Man
One of the problems with our society is that we’re taught to see people as ‘other’. When in fact if you could look below the skin you would see exactly the same components. Over the centuries we have divided ourselves by race, religion, colour, creed, and now gender. These divisions are so many centuries oldContinueContinue reading “On Society: The Other-hood of Man”
How to Love Yourself
People trot out that old chestnut, ‘you should love yourself more’, then generally walk away leaving you to get on with it, possibly because in truth they have no real idea how to put those words into action. I do. I had to learn. First by rebuilding my character to bring out the real me.ContinueContinue reading “How to Love Yourself”
The King
When you think of the word “successful,” who’s the first person that comes to mind and why? I’ve gone way back for this image of a young Prince Charles, because this is when the man I admire for his successes launched who he was going to be. Instead of drinking and complaining his way throughContinueContinue reading “The King”
When They Become Good Friends
What makes a good neighbor? Yes I used to watch it! Seriously though, if you get on well with your neighbours you’re very lucky, especially in the indoor society, repel all borders, parts of the UK. We’ve not been so lucky since we left London, although that may well have changed. When we first movedContinueContinue reading “When They Become Good Friends”
On Society
For most of my life I’ve had a political mind, and yet I don’t want to go into politics. More and more lately I’ve felt that as a society we need to look at ourselves. To consider how our behaviour, beliefs, and prejudices, affect the world that we’re creating that the children of the futureContinueContinue reading “On Society”