Book Snippet: Deserving p.90

A snippet from the ‘Getting ready to change’ section of my book. What is deserving and how do we force ourselves to feel deserving? You don’t, you ignore the idea. Have a read and see if it helps.

True Love

If you’ve struggled finding true love, or it goes wrong every time, there’s a reason for this. A little-known emotional hitch that sounds like a cliche and is in fact very real.

Coping Emotionally

There are several simple factors in life that make this a very difficult world to navigate emotionally. Beliefs: We humans fail to realise that the word beliefs does not mean right. Our beliefs are generated by our life experience, and may make no sense to other people who have lived a different kind of life.ContinueContinue reading “Coping Emotionally”

Alone but Not Lonely

Do you suffer from loneliness? This is a long blog but this is a complex question with many potential causes. I suggest that you look at just the ones that resonate with you if you’re not into long reads. On the other hand it may help you identify what triggers your feelings of loneliness. So,ContinueContinue reading “Alone but Not Lonely”

Blame -v- Responsibility

I’m learning something new that is based on taking total responsibility for your life, for everything that happens to you, even when someone else has done whatever it is. So if someone is unpleasant to you, you were in that place at that time, and so you take responsibility. You may feel like stopping readingContinueContinue reading “Blame -v- Responsibility”

The Rest is silence

Photo by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.com As with a lot of my older work I can see that this piece is relevant to people of all genders, and no matter the relationship. It could equally be parent child. I find it so interesting the different way we look at life such a few short yearsContinueContinue reading “The Rest is silence”

The Killing Field

Photo by RDNE Stock project on Pexels.com I catch his eye across the room,He catches mine; well that’s just grand.The music’s blaring all around,Modern time; old fashioned band.He walks this way, I wait and see,I think he wants to dance with me.I ask his name. I tell him mine.He wants to dance, I will, thisContinueContinue reading “The Killing Field”