There I Am

Loud and Proud For many years I wasn’t as up-front as this, I was basically in hiding in my own life. Anxiety is the great un-doer of personality. It takes everything you think you are and changes you into something you don’t recognise. People very quickly pick up on this, and only the best keepContinueContinue reading “There I Am”

Why?

Why?Why what?Why did you do something?Why are you feeling something?Why aren’t you changing something?Do you know the answers to these questions?If you don’t it matters and doesn’t matterIt doesn’t matter because it’s okay not to knowIt matters because you’re trying to changeWhat you don’t knowWhat that something isSomething you haven’t decided onBecause you’re not inContinueContinue reading “Why?”

Not You Me

You ask me for adviceBut I am not youI cannot be youI can only be meAs such my advice will be basedOn what I would doAnd that’s no use to youWe need to find out what you wantTogetherYou are not alone with thisBut you are the only youOnly you can be right for youAnd youContinueContinue reading “Not You Me”

True Power

This is an old poster, so my website is – debhawken.com,but the DebDancingStar page is still available on Facebook. That was a really funny moment, the coordinator of the event asked some of the greatest thinkers of our time what love meant. They looked so flummoxed, but each came up with an answer of someContinueContinue reading “True Power”

A Very Real but Unexpected Miracle

This is the story of Charles Henry Hawken, seen here with his best buddy, Harry the Hedgehog. This story is written for anyone who believes in miracles, and anyone who’s been told that they aren’t possible. It starts in December 2018, and involves my dear friendLuke Rymell, the Spirit Artist. It starts sadly, and ends magnificently,ContinueContinue reading “A Very Real but Unexpected Miracle”

One of a Kind

Such a simple message with a lifetime of meaning. The moment you stop being yourself in order to make life easier for others, you lose the uniqueness that is the real you. Obviously we can’t live our lives running roughshod over others, demanding everything we want, when we want it, our way. We also can’tContinueContinue reading “One of a Kind”

Nice Talk by Marcus

Hito likes nice talk This is my brother Hito. He went through a stage of being a very naughty boy at the vets. We don’t know what changed, but he started biting and scratching, and wow that guy’s fast. He scratched a nurse twice, bit dad, scratched the vet, and nipped mum, all before anyoneContinueContinue reading “Nice Talk by Marcus”

Who Am I?

This is the first post promoting my book, which you can find on Amazon. As it says, it’s a handbook for permanent, positive, change. More than that, it’s a map book. Choose your starting point, choose your destination, and I offer ideas to help you get there. It’s a practical book that deals with lifeContinueContinue reading “Who Am I?”