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What are your top 10 travel destinations? Italy – particularly lake Como. I relax in Italy. France – particularly Paris because I want to see the restored Notre Dame. Imagine seeing it as fresh as when it was first built? What an honour. Sedona Arizona – because Tony has never been there and he willContinueContinue reading “Oh Wow”

What is your favorite quote? I love this one because it’s true. We all need to take control of our thoughts and not let our minds run amok. It doesn’t feel that we choose to be unhappy, anxious, stressed, angry, depressed, but unless these things are clinical or driven by a traumatic life event, weContinueContinue reading “Same as Usual with a Twist”

If you had to give one life-changing tip, what would it be? I know this subject matter is something of a bandwagon for me, but it’s truly the voice of my heart. Taking it out to the nth degree, happiness does not murder, maim, rape, abuse, or start wars. Bringing it back to the personal,ContinueContinue reading “Choose Happiness Always”

What’s a skill you consider basic, that most people don’t actually know how to do? These questions are interesting and challenging, but also impossible to answer. What represents most people? 8 billion? How would I know what they can and can’t do? I don’t know what my neighbours can and can’t do. Obviously with theContinueContinue reading “How on Earth Would I Know?”

Who is the fictional character you relate to the most? I like his quiet strength. He was a leader who didn’t have to throw his weight about, he led from a position of knowledge and quiet respect. If you have to bully you’re not a leader. His team looked to him to steady them, whenContinueContinue reading “Clever Question”

Do you think everything happens for a reason? Exactly this. Plus does everything happen for your reasons, or for reasons generated by others, both or neither? Does fate exist? Do the stars align for some people and not others? If not why not? Does attitude drive what happens? Good attitude = good things for goodContinueContinue reading “Everything?”

What’s your home decoration style? I hate decorating Plus I can’t ‘feel’ this house. Only one room is right and Tony chose the wallpaper and colours. Our last two houses were brilliant. Not gorgeous designer type style, but the colours worked. I feel that this house needs more light and warmth. Yet Tony chose aContinueContinue reading “Random”

What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever? In my life I’ve loved them allThe Beatles I came here as love to do nothing but love, and my capacity for love is endless. At the moment there’s a bull in a tv advert that I just want to hug it’s so beautiful. ThankfullyContinueContinue reading “In My Life”

If you could rewrite any book’s ending, which one would you choose? To do this would be to contravene all the above As such I would never do such a thing. That’s someone else’s work, part of their soul, who am I to change that? Which is another way of saying that yet again IContinueContinue reading “Respect for Fellow Writers”

What’s your biggest dream? Nero This cat has life sussed. He’s well fed, well loved, and well spoiled. He deserves it all. He teaches you how to chill, how to be in the present moment. At the vets he saunters out of his box, strolls around the surgery, stretches out on the floor, then whenContinueContinue reading “The Simple Things”