One of the little pieces of blackmail I have always ‘loved’ is that if you don’t charge enough for your work you don’t value yourself and other people won’t believe in you. That, or charging weeds out the losers. To a certain extent that is true, because some people value money in the wrong way.ContinueContinue reading “You Are NOT Your Bank Balance”
Category Archives: Power Thinking
There I Am
Loud and Proud For many years I wasn’t as up-front as this, I was basically in hiding in my own life. Anxiety is the great un-doer of personality. It takes everything you think you are and changes you into something you don’t recognise. People very quickly pick up on this, and only the best keepContinueContinue reading “There I Am”
Why?
Why?Why what?Why did you do something?Why are you feeling something?Why aren’t you changing something?Do you know the answers to these questions?If you don’t it matters and doesn’t matterIt doesn’t matter because it’s okay not to knowIt matters because you’re trying to changeWhat you don’t knowWhat that something isSomething you haven’t decided onBecause you’re not inContinueContinue reading “Why?”
Not You Me
You ask me for adviceBut I am not youI cannot be youI can only be meAs such my advice will be basedOn what I would doAnd that’s no use to youWe need to find out what you wantTogetherYou are not alone with thisBut you are the only youOnly you can be right for youAnd youContinueContinue reading “Not You Me”
My Alphabet of Hope
True Power
This is an old poster, so my website is – debhawken.com,but the DebDancingStar page is still available on Facebook. That was a really funny moment, the coordinator of the event asked some of the greatest thinkers of our time what love meant. They looked so flummoxed, but each came up with an answer of someContinueContinue reading “True Power”
Softly
Move softly through life Keep your mind in positive places Keep your thoughts as happy as possible Remember your humanity Understand that you don’t know why others are the way they are You won’t appreciate why others fall until you’re tested yourself If you think you have been and still don’t understand Then you haven’tContinueContinue reading “Softly”
One of a Kind
Such a simple message with a lifetime of meaning. The moment you stop being yourself in order to make life easier for others, you lose the uniqueness that is the real you. Obviously we can’t live our lives running roughshod over others, demanding everything we want, when we want it, our way. We also can’tContinueContinue reading “One of a Kind”
Nice Talk by Marcus
Hito likes nice talk This is my brother Hito. He went through a stage of being a very naughty boy at the vets. We don’t know what changed, but he started biting and scratching, and wow that guy’s fast. He scratched a nurse twice, bit dad, scratched the vet, and nipped mum, all before anyoneContinueContinue reading “Nice Talk by Marcus”
Who Am I?
This is the first post promoting my book, which you can find on Amazon. As it says, it’s a handbook for permanent, positive, change. More than that, it’s a map book. Choose your starting point, choose your destination, and I offer ideas to help you get there. It’s a practical book that deals with lifeContinueContinue reading “Who Am I?”
