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Feeling good

What is the greatest gift someone could give you? In every fibre of my being. Mind, body, and soul. No tantrums. No sticking with things that make you unhappy and transferring that to those around you so that others live with your stress. No criticising what you don’t understand. No knowing best. No judging byContinueContinue reading “Feeling good”

Odd Question

What colleges have you attended? Colleges and universities are one of the ways that humans are judged for the rest of their lives. They can make or break you socially or financially, even though it’s generally reckoned that a degree becomes a piece of paper after 2 years. Unfairly, the lack of attendance at collegeContinueContinue reading “Odd Question”

Everything

I have a strong personal belief when it comes to race, skin colour, gender, religion, cultural beliefs. It’s simply that as soul we are atoms who have formed a pattern called soul, which has manifested here as all things over time. I believe that the multi genders represent soul evolution where humans are being bornContinueContinue reading “Everything”

How Do You Work This Out?

You tell me I’m wrongYet this is not your lifeAnd I am not youHow can you tell meThat my reactions are inappropriateWhen you don’t knowWhat it took to make meMe?My life experienced shaped meYours shaped youWe do not know everythingAbout each otherEvery nuance that createdThe reactionsThat have becomeWho we areIt is foolish to think soBecauseContinueContinue reading “How Do You Work This Out?”

See Me!

This image demonstrates perfectly the difference between seeing another person and listening to your own life experience. You’re using your own eyes Listening to your own voice Hearing your own words That is not me I have my own view of the world My own voice And my own words If you listen to themContinueContinue reading “See Me!”

Busy Doing Nothing

Photo by Andrea Piacquadio on Pexels.com This came to me just now, and encapsulates how I’m feeling at the moment. That moment when you desperately want something to do that you want to do, but there is nothing.  Irritation at it’s finest! I’m sitting here Doing nothing Which is exactly What I’m not supposed toContinueContinue reading “Busy Doing Nothing”

The ‘sigh’ in the Room?

When you suffer from mental health issues you’re often treated like a pair of curtains. People try to be sympathetic, lose patience, and suggest that you try harder or pull yourself together. They may not use those words but it’s implicit in the chivvying up process. You can’t whip yourself together with one smart pull,ContinueContinue reading “The ‘sigh’ in the Room?”

Yes and No

Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you? Badminton yes, otherwise no. My hubby is usually stressed by work, and works long hours. He’s also quite stressed at home because he feels constantly under pressure somewhere. As we don’t have a lot of local support we don’t have holidays or evenContinueContinue reading “Yes and No”