I’m a person who can’t walk past a problem, if anyone tells me that they’re not happy I’m in there like a ninja, using every skill I’ve ever learned, every ability and piece of training I’ve ever had, and asking for all possible help and guidance. Anything I can do to help that person release their pain.
The problem is that a lot of people like their problems more than they realise. It’s the “who am I without them?” syndrome.
I literally didn’t know what a relaxed person felt like. I was the most rigidly relaxed person I knew, in my opinion. But then my feeling good at that time would have been many people’s nightmare.
However, any slight release from anxiety, from constant emotional bullying, is a good thing. At least I knew when I was having a good moment and you can build on them.
Am I annoying?
Honestly, I think I am sometimes, but I don’t want to be anyone else. I don’t want to be one of those people who can’t spare an idea, a positive thought, who doesn’t care. Who won’t share what saved them.
If you met me ten minutes ago and told me you have something upsetting you that’s important to me. Because there was a time that I wasn’t important at all, and I know how that feels.
When you’ve got someone there who is interested enough to help you, listen. My mentor used to say I’d bang his head on a wall if I could to get one last ounce of inspiration out of him.
I asked him and his co-Pilot Lesley if they ever found it annoying that I might call them twice (or more) a day wanting to work through concepts. They both said versions of “no, because every time you called you’d moved on, you had something new you were working on.”
Never feel too great to need help. Never feel that you’ve messed up so badly you don’t deserve it, if it’s there grab it. Everyone deserves help. I am eternally grateful for every moment of help and support I’ve received.
I’m paying it forward now, that ‘wisdom’ that was so hard won.
And even if people like me are sometimes annoying, or you’ve been silently shocked that someone wants to actually help you, just grab every piece of help you’re offered. Then work with it and mould it to fit you.
Create your own jigsaw puzzle of change. Do it your way. But do it.
So yes…
I may be annoying. I may come across like a positivity princess, but I actually give a toss about how the people of this earth feel. I really don’t want to change, because I don’t respect the people who don’t care.
Not one bit. Not sorry either.
🤣😘💖
Deb xx
Deb Hawken - Amorah 