I’ve tried and I ignore all lists and all goals. They are a pointless exercise in my life. If it’s really important I write a note and leave it somewhere prominent where I will see it.
I’ve concluded that when I write lists of things to do they’re actually something I don’t want to do.
The Reminders I’ve put on my phone and set to pop up every day, only to delete them three months later still not completed.
I’ve concluded that if I need or want to do something I will and a reminder is not needed. If I have to write it down to remember it, that’s because I want to forget. It works as a good guide to tell me exactly what I have no intention of doing!
I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx
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