The Rules

There are rules you know!
Depending on where we're from
We have to hate each other
Nothing else is possible
Or sensible

Depending on our skin colour
There are rules that we must follow
Judgements to be made
An entire shade placed in one category
Of right or wrong

Depending on our body structure
We must be one thing or the other
Nothing else is right
No authentic feeling matters

Depending on what we earn
We can or cannot be kind
We are or are not lazy
We may or may not be elitist

Depending on the life
We were born into
We're either rich and successful
(And disinterested)
Middle class
(And boring)
Poor
(And didn't try hard enough)

Depending on what school we went to
We will or will not make a good career
Depending on where we trained
We will or will not reach the top levels
Success is for the correct few
Not the hopeful many

Depending on our nationality
We do or do not believe in war
Depending on our governments
We do or do not feel sorry
For others across the world

Depending which party wins
We will have 5 years
Of happiness or frustration

Depending on our God
We may or may not be murdered

These things are not true
These are not rules

Billions of people walk this earth
Each individually unique
Some band together in one camp
Some in the other

Yet many walk a central path of shared humanity
Disinterested in the rules
Open to meeting different people
Learning about different lives
Celebrating difference
Wanting to know how it feels
To be you

These people pray for your safety
Hope that you're thriving
Feel that you should have
Abundance in all good
Great and wonderful things
Wish you well(ness)

Their thoughts are life affirming
Their approach is flexible
Their ideas can be changed
Their beliefs are subject
To discussion
And sharing
And listening
And hearing

These people accept others
For who they are
Under the same sky
On the same Earth
Living in the same world

One race
One world
One love
Peace and safety for all

I am one of those people
And I am not alone

Deb Hawken
March 2024

For all those suffering
From these 'rules'
Especially in conflict torn areas
ALL of them!

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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