Loss at Christmas

Only read this if you’re struggling with loss today, these words are intended to offer a little love and support. But they may be too painful.

They are also written by a medium who can PERSONALLY say that she knows life goes on, but would never try to convince anyone. It might just help a tiny bit though.

They’re written with love and compassion, and from shared experience.

These are the words of my Guides Amos and Eduoard.

Amos

“These days are the worst, especially in the first year, don’t attempt to be brave or feel good, take one step at a time, one breath at a time, and try to talk of as many good memories as you can. You can’t avoid the pain so don’t try.

But these are the most healing days, get through today and it will be a tiny amount easier, each anniversary and birthday, each painful celebration is part of the healing that will allow you to connect again, to feel their presence, to KNOW that they are still a real part of your life. Which they ARE.

You’re not trying to get over their loss, you’re building a new relationship. A very real one.”

Eduoard

“Grief is the emotion that separates us, love is the link that binds us forever. Celebrate every moment of healing, every tear of healing, then you will be moving towards that forever bond that has never, will never, and can never, be broken.”

Me

I just hope that helps a little.

Remember how many millions of people have been where you are, and slowly and gently moved forward to coping. Grief is the price we pay for being the luckiest people in the world.

You knew them!

Much much love.

Deb Xx

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