What’s the first impression you want to give people? That they’re safe with me. In my early years it was never safe for me to be me, I used to adjust myself for those I was with just to stop being hurt anymore. It didn’t work because: It was never about me it was aboutContinueContinue reading “Kindness”
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The Hidden Girl
What book are you reading right now? By Lucinda Riley. My favourite of hers was The Love Letter. I also loved the Seven Sisters series. Each book was set in a different place in the world and she evoked each place so effectively you felt you were there. She sadly left this world before sheContinueContinue reading “The Hidden Girl”
Switzerland or America
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be? A few weeks ago it would have been the other way around, but the US is a bit too unknown at the moment. Switzerland because it’s nicely situated to visit lots of fascinating places very easily, and because I love Lake Geneva. IContinueContinue reading “Switzerland or America”
The Power of an Idea
Why you should keep a notebook of your favourite positive and encouraging sayings.
Clarence: USA
What a mystifying election and result! I was over there of course and a lot of people had good reasons to feel the way they felt, but I couldn’t help hearing Trump screaming fix had he been so comprehensibly beaten. Every country has to do what’s right, and often it’s as much about the opponentContinueContinue reading “Clarence: USA”
Cool for Cats
What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)? What’s this Mimsy? Don’t know Lily, stick your nose in and let me know. 14 cats are the coolest thing I’ve ever found and kept. Apart from that the odd feather found somewhere unusual. My dad once found a pretty, clear glass marble and bought itContinueContinue reading “Cool for Cats”
Define ‘It’
If you don’t change ITThen IT won’t changeMe – learning the hard way This was one of my key pieces of learning during my journey from chaos and acute anxiety. You can look around you for help, outside you, consult experts, read the best books, talk to all your friends, and all of this isContinueContinue reading “Define ‘It’”
Getting up
What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can? I don’t try to skip it as such, it’s more the effort it takes to get me together enough to be seen in public. I have tricky hair that takes time to style every day, or will until flat one side,ContinueContinue reading “Getting up”
Anton du Beke
Who is the most famous or infamous person you have ever met? Not what I expected From Strictly Come Dancing. On Strictly he had a persona, his laugh will remind you of the upper classes at times, whereas he’s very much an ordinary guy from an ordinary family. A guy who despite his positive, lifeContinueContinue reading “Anton du Beke”
Super Long Read!!!!
What is good about having a pet? I’ll tell Buddha Kidding 🤣 Everything. Yes we’ve had problems. It took us three sets of carpets to realise that one of our cats hates them. Lino equals a happy cat. It’s agony at the end, but every day in between you will smile. They will become yourContinueContinue reading “Super Long Read!!!!”
Deb Hawken - Amorah 