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Who is the most confident person you know? Except I struggle like most other people. I sometimes think what others call confidence is actually a combination of stoicism and reality with a touch of not thinking about yourself too much thrown in. My mum Was one of the most naturally beautiful women I’d ever seenContinueContinue reading “Me Probably”

What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings? It’s an ancient Hawaiian healing method taught by a lady called Morrnah, to a guy called Huw Len. He in turn taught Joe Vitale, who wrote about it and brought it to wider attention. It relieves stress, develops your spirituality, and people use it toContinueContinue reading “Ho’oponopono”

What activities do you lose yourself in? But in truth I find it hard to lose myself. Over the years mind control has been such a strong factor with me that I even find meditating difficult. If I can do it, it’s brilliant, but I have flashes where I can and then I struggle. IContinueContinue reading “Writing”

What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times? I remember one of the first televisions in the early 1960’s. Since then I’ve watched a great deal of TV, it’s a nice easy way to choose your company depending on your mood. The one thing that sticks in my mind is Friends.ContinueContinue reading “I Didn’t Count”

Are you superstitious? We have one black cat now Until 2019 we had Miss Jo-Jo We’ve also had three cats who looked black then either as they grew or in the sun you realised they were chocolate brown. Chocolate though, what’s not to love? Seriously, we don’t get cats for any other reason than weContinueContinue reading “Intuition not Superstition”

Which animal would you compare yourself to and why? I once saw a lioness at a safari park rebuff the advances of a very handsome lion. I was impressed by her attitude, her sense of self-worth, and her total lack of apology. She didn’t want to know and he could take a hike. That girlContinueContinue reading “A Lioness”

Write a letter to your 100-year-old self. You’d better be having fun and causing havoc! I hope you’ve led the grandchildren astray, proposed to a 20 year old, and worn purple with a red hat. You should have taken at least 7 cruises by now and been thrown off at least one ship for beingContinueContinue reading “Dear Me!”

Where would you go on a shopping spree? To be honest it’s not really about the shopping, I’m not that into it anymore. It’s more that I’d like to visit New York. My dad used to go there on the Queens Elizabeth and Mary, and that planted a seed. I’d like to stay on theContinueContinue reading “New York”

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance? It’s Ann. Dad chose it. Mum didn’t like it because people would call me Annie and she would spend the rest of her life screaming “her name is Ann.” Instead I was called Debbie, which never felt right and I just can myself DebContinueContinue reading “Already Answered”

What is the last thing you learned? I’m learning all the time so it’s hard to remember what the last thing was. There are things I thought I’d never learn though: That this world would go mad – again. That America would vote for an inexplicable President. That war is still a thing . MysogenyContinueContinue reading “I Forget”