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How do you balance work and home life? Goodness this one has taken all day. I just couldn’t get to where I wanted to go. However, here I am. So, I gave up the day job years ago after an awful experience that finished me forever. I moved into working in the Spiritual field, whichContinueContinue reading “I Don’t Have a Day Job”

What sacrifices have you made in life? I wasn’t raised to put myself first. In fact to do your best or think you were a nice person were BIG sins in my family. I was also raised very much in second place. I’ve gone into this in other blogs, so briefly, on two occasions menContinueContinue reading “Myself”

What’s the oldest things you’re wearing today? Is it morning? Seriously I am awake, although if I blogged in my sleep that might be interesting, or terrifying if my mind was unsupervised. I’ve already covered my 30+ year old belt, similar age jeans, no point going there again. I don’t have any current favourite clothesContinueContinue reading “My Wedding Ring”

Are you a leader or a follower? I’m also a very good team player. I don’t need to lead, it just happens. Three times I’ve been voted as leader when I wasn’t in the room. I don’t mind. If people trust me I’ll do it. The outcome is the focus, not the individual. This isContinueContinue reading “Leader 100%”

List your top 5 favorite fruits. Apples: because they link to one of my favourite plays which I’m updating. Bananas: because my aunt bought my father some comic underpants one Christmas thinking he would be embarrassed. They had a handy (and over exaggerated) pocket at the front for tidying ‘things’ away. My dad came backContinueContinue reading “Thrilling”

What’s one small improvement you can make in your life? This is Hito Hito has a body clock. It’s very precise, but it allegedly becomes confused by the time reset we have in the UK. Looking forward to British Summertime and returning to Greenwich Meantime in the winter. This means that Hito effectively moves hisContinueContinue reading “Training a Cat”

Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life. One! There are so many people who have impacted my life that the idea of choosing one gives me a headache. From the famous to friends, I have been blessed by so much help and generously shared wisdom, that it’s hard toContinueContinue reading “Some ONE?”

What does freedom mean to you? Years of mental health struggles mean that to me freedom will always be based around state of mind. If I feel good then life is good. The problem I’ve had is that, with very few exceptions, the people that have surrounded my in my life don’t tend to beContinueContinue reading “It’s Mental”

What public figure do you disagree with the most? Where do I start? Men who start wars. They’re cold blooded killers who would get the death sentence if they weren’t hiding behind an army. Terrorists who attack innocents. They do it partly to start wars. India and Pakistan have just fallen for this one. PeopleContinueContinue reading “Too Much Choice”

What is your career plan? The path of my retirement Or it should have been, only it was after I gave up work that I finally realised what I wanted to do. I wanted to help people find their real self. Your real self is your soul. It came here with ten thousand years worthContinueContinue reading “Retirement”