Past Memories

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If you’ve read this morning’s blog you will know I played fast and loose with sanity. It was about things you collect and one of the things we all collect are memories.

About an hour after I finished it I had my regular therapy session, muscle release and mind unscrambling. Rob is a full service industry!

I’m struggling bit with life at the moment and note that the situation has brought up a lot of painful memories. Sadly they outweigh the good memories by some margin. Even both my weddings were horrible, to put it in perspective. Tony and I didn’t even keep pictures.

That’s quite enough perspective.

It occurred to me as I made up this poster with the help of AI, that we all have memories, and we don’t want to lose or memories as it takes an illness or accident to achieve that. Unless you’re my husband in which case five minutes ago is a bit vague, lucky man!

If you follow the logic we should all be taught to make only good memories, to focus our lives wisely. To work out who we are and think enough of ourselves to protect our self and emotions.

You can’t always walk away from all bad memories, but you can choose good ones as much as possible.

If you think about it though, losing a person or pet that you love is a hurtful memory but not a bad one. It always hurts but that memory is based on a lifetime of love.

A sudden passing hurts, we had a cat just die on us, he knocked something down, fell, Tony caught him but he was just gone. It hurts like hell if I think about it, but Charlie is all good memories apart from that moment. I had a friend that died unexpectedly too. Awful. But he’s also a good memory.

So the message is;

Be a conscious creator of good memories, and know the difference between a situation creating an unnecessarily painful memory to carry, and a sad one built on a foundation of love and smiles.

Best love

Amorah – Deb

Charlie and Harry

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I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

2 thoughts on “Past Memories”

  1. This was deeply thoughtful and beautifully written. The line about being a “conscious creator of good memories” really stands out. Life brings both joyful and painful moments, but love is what gives the memories their true meaning.

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