Boring as Heck!

Describe a risk you took that you do not regret.

I know this because I had it years ago

I didn’t take it though, I paid for it.

Crikey they’ve taken this stratospheric!

Seriously, I’m not a risk taker, I’m a bit like the board game, I need to know where everything is, have all my ducks in a row, and plan my strategy. Then I go and have my haircut.

Told you – boring.

I have achieved a few things in my life, such as having a play and musical staged, but those things felt right and didn’t feel like a risk at all.

The one risk I didn’t know I was taking was in publishing my self-help book. I went to (allegedly) the self-publishing arm of Hay House, which I heard called that on a Hay House Seminar on self-publishing.

I paid for the top package which included promotion. That turned out to be a short video a very dull page on their website, and an email shot. Two years later I received my one and only reply, from a Hollywood film company apologising that they didn’t feel that my book would make a good film. No surprise there but I thanked them for their courtesy.

I also had the shock of this company calling me to offer ‘even better promotion’ for $25,000. Money I didn’t have. The book went nowhere.

If you’re going to write a book just upload it to the big bookselling sites, and make sure you have loads of interested connections. Don’t rely on family and friends. It’s a huge pressure on them to be thrilled by your hardcore porn fairy story!

Kidding!

I didn’t have the social media following or the connections to make it work. Plus I could put 63,000 words down on paper, but ask me to promote anything and my tongue ties in more knots than a rope ladder!

Still love it though.

Hito knows exactly who he is, where he is (food and cuddles place), and why he is (to rule the world)!

I think he got that from my book.🤣😻🤣

Best love

Amorah – Deb

If you want ideas as to how to rule your inner world – it’s on Amazon. Hito won’t part with his. 🤣

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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