Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?
Life is a series of lessons, from I’m ‘squashed’ as you fly out of the birth canal, to why did I marry them, what possessed me to buy that outfit, to where did I put my glasses, when you get older.
Looking back can remind you that you’re learning this lesson for the second time – double edged sword you feel twice as dumb!
However, it’s good to take note of lessons learned, but I’ll guarantee you that when you think you’ve learned the lesson it will come at you in a different way, and confound you again.
As anyone who’s been married or partnered more than once will tell you.
You were never going to get involved again, you did. You were never going to fall in love again, you did. You certainly weren’t ever going to put up with bras drying in the shower, male undergarments and socks strewn across the bedroom, but you did.
We were never going to buy a house again where the kitchen, bathroom, and shower room needed decorating. Out of sheer desperation we did. We’re determined not to next time, wish us luck, the moment a house hugs us we lose our financial minds!
So don’t look back too much. Trust who you are now. Be in the generous present moment, and never forget that whatever you messed up…
Stay optimistic, keep exploring what life has to offer, be young at heart, and blame every mistake on youth even if you’ve made it at 90!
The universe is billions of years old, we’re mere youngsters!
Best love
Amorah – Deb
Love to all in war torn areas, we are thinking of you.
Deb Hawken - Amorah 