True Love

Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved?

I Love Me

Is that okay?
I think it is but it’s hard to be sure
For some that smacks of self-obsession
To me it’s self-preservation

I won’t go away from me
Or leave me
I will stand by me through thick and thin
I will be there for me

When it seems that no one loves me
I will
When no one wants to be with me
I will be happy alone

That way everyone in my life
Becomes a bonus
Unburdened by expectations
Free to be themselves

They don’t have to please me
Tiptoe around me
Jump through hoops
Walk gingerly over hot coals

All because I an enough for me
Complete of myself
Comfortable in my humanity
Content with the company of a good book
And a cat!


Deb Hawken - 2026
Mesmerising eyes conveying true love (of food) 😻

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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