Kittens of Course

Tell us about the last thing you got excited about.

With mummy Nero

Nero was six when we got the girls, and he immediately became full on Earth mother. Wouldn’t leave their side, rushed straight into their room the moment the door was open to check them over. Cried outside the door to be let in; but a new mother had to have his rest. Plus you don’t leave adults and babies together until you’re sure they get on.

Apart from that we need a new car, and I do like cars.

Even though it was scary and worrying, I wasn’t that upset when my husband was made redundant from a toxic company. My first feeling was thank you God! My second thought was about the bills. The first thought won.

Because he was at director level they often pay you notice and then you go immediately. So we had money to tide us over while he had time to job hunt.

In a way that’s fortunate, but there are fewer jobs at that level so it’s swings and roundabouts. He has a job now somewhere he likes, good people, less pressure, half the wages, but our mortgage is paid off at the end of the year, so things will ease.

It just goes to show that excitement can arrive in the oddest ways, and more often if you value happiness and love over everything else.

No expensive jewellery or fancy car, big house (vacuuming 😱), designer wardrobe, could ever mean more than love. It makes the world go round, it heals, it’s the most powerful force there is. As long as…

You remember to apply it to yourself

What other people think of you are their words in their head, based on their beliefs. If they’re unkind, just ask yourself if you could do that to anyone? If the answer is no, you’re fine. 💖

Best love

In the words of a song “Never met a (wo) man I didn’t like”. I don’t think I’ve ever failed to find something likeable in everyone I’ve met. Even if the relationship broke.

Amorah – Deb

You have to have the strength of an elephant to be kind though, but don’t let the world, particularly social media, change you for the worst.

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

2 thoughts on “Kittens of Course

  1. Deb, the last paragraph is brilliant and something to think about. That’s why we liked those people in the first place, they had qualities we liked. We can’t forget those even if the relationship didn’t survive.

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