What do you love about where you live?
Where I live is actually very nice, it has a fantastic road system and a nice indoor shopping centre, and plenty of services. There is no reason not to like it, except I don’t.
I’ve never settled here and I can’t explain it except to say that the right place is the right place. Anything not the right place is not the wrong place, it’s just not your place. That’s okay.
Chillax
Humans have a tendency to judge that anything not right for them is flawed in some way. We can also struggle to deal with those who don’t see life the way we do.
Then you have the stubborn people who pride themselves on their inflexibility and trap themselves in a pattern that doesn’t allow for change. They’ll stay where they’re miserable to prove they’re not wrong.
As a race we need to relax, enjoy differences, and recognise that it’s okay not to like something or somewhere, or to disagree with someone.
What’s not okay is to believe that your feelings and opinions are right for everyone, and that it’s okay to insult and criticise something you don’t like or someone you disagree with.
I live in a perfectly lovely town. It’s just not my kind of place.
No one’s fault, not even mine.
Just accept where you don’t fit or who you don’t gel with, and move on.
Best love
Deb xx
Deb Hawken - Amorah 