Leggings

If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, what would it be?

Which I wear all the time anyway.

I use to be all about the glamour, not quite to this level, but honestly I can’t be bothered nowadays. I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing.

It’s partly because the clothes available now are awful, badly cut and poor quality.

To put this in perspective, when I was young the shape I am now would have been a size 16, which was a terrible thing to be! In fact it was very slim.

Yet there are times I can’t get a top to fit me because an extra small is too big. They’ve made clothes boxy and floaty so that women can see themselves as much smaller than they are. Which leaves us smaller girls who used to be larger nowhere much to go. However, there are good basics out there and I’m comfortable in them.

It’s a known trick of the clothing profession, my husband worked for Laura Ashley, a famous London clothes designer and seller, and they were gradually going broke. Experts suggested they took all their stock back, changed the size labels to make them all a size smaller, which they did. Relaunched, and saved the company.

The plus side

Rather than size 🤣

Is that it’s great to have that time in your young life when you find your fashion, have beautiful clothes, and feel good in them. But it’s equally great to reach the age where all that matters is that you feel good, clothed, unclothed, or in the best clothes you can get at the time.

I do struggle sometimes with tops particularly, but at the end of the day it doesn’t matter that much.

Nothing is more important than feeling good, and we all know that we can put our finest, favourite, outfit on, and if we feel sad or upset it doesn’t really count for that much.

Yep, every age of life has its benefits. Going out not worrying about how you look is a nice stage of life.

Best love

You’re gorgeous anyway

Deb xx

A simple outfit, but add your favourite belt and a great necklace, and I felt wonderful that day.

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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