Amorah

If you had to change your name, what would your new name be?

I’ve talked about this name before, but a quick recap for any new readers:

Amorah is a Jewish name, for me the links to Judaism in this life are strong, which I feel is what they call a clue.

It was during a meditation I was shown my soul name, my favourite of all my lifetimes: Amorah, which is pronounced as it looks. It means “One who communicates” as well as writing I’m a public speaker, go figure.

However, when I sat with the name I realised that wasn’t how it felt to me.

The pronunciation that feels right is Amor, as in the French word for love, and Rah as in the Egyptian Sun God. Oddly an Egyptian lifetime has appeared in many of my meditations.

Putting those together you get loving sun, or as I prefer, loving light.

Why?

Because I’ve been hurt so many times in my life by so many people, and it has always baffled me that people had to behave the way they did, use the words they did. Talk to me, I will listen, I always have.

I obviously understand now that a lot of that was about life lessons which have changed me very much for the better. I didn’t become bitter I became kinder, and thank God for that.

Work confusion

I was always confused as to how to express what my work is.

I work very personally, even in groups. I never tell someone they need me to feel or be better, I tell them they will get my support to sort things out themselves, their own way, in their own time, at their own pace.

Try putting that into one of those eternally long Coaching adverts where you get repetitive strain injury scrolling down to find the price, if your eyes aren’t too dry to see straight after reading it all that is.

I tried them but if never worked, it never felt authentic. So I went into the feeling as to why I didn’t like those adverts when I was struggling to attract clients, and realised that I have very little to say about what I do until I meet someone.

I never decide what anyone needs,
I respond to them.

I can do that very successfully in groups, building an excellent group dynamic where everyone is heard, and important.

It was when I discovered my soul name that it all clicked into place. It’s my all-time favourite because it describes exactly what I want to be to the people I know and connect with: a loving light.

Someone you can be wrong with, someone you can be confused with, lose your temper in front of, cry your heart out, keep telling them that you’re confused and still be telling me that a year later.

It’s okay to be wrong, it’s okay to be lost, it’s okay to be angry, to be broken, to be anxious, depressed, it’s okay to be human. It’s the default condition on this planet. It’s okay to heal in your own time and your own way. In fact it’s critical.

I’m famous for commenting, when people tell me they’re silly to still be grief stricken after a few months:

If you weren’t I’d be seriously
doubting your sanity.

I mean it, the negative emotions aren’t negative, they are a real reaction to a real event. It’s important to understand that. Don’t fight them, allow them, then release them when the time is right for you.

All this is why I want people to feel safe being themselves around me, in the good times and the bad, and know that help and support is at hand, and I will find their way to help them. As will my guide Amos.

I do the human side, he does the spiritual, and it works.

He suggests, we bring in the change.

What’s in a name? A lot…

Amorah crystallised my work, it’s what I’ve always been, and all I want to do is shine a loving light into your heart and life, and show you how to be yourself, your way.

In the groups we work things out together, then in visualisation our guides give us personal advice, we then share that (many minds make light work), and create a way forward that suits each individual and helps with whatever they need at that time.

It sounds simple, it is simple because complication is exhausting and time consuming, it’s also fun, and it bonds us as a group.

So there is a lot in the name Amorah, it defines my work, it is me, and the message is simple:

If you’re not happy – contact me
I would love to help you

You matter

Best love

Deb – Amorah xx