My Heart

What gives you direction in life?

Yes I’m starting with that same idea that I write about often, but it is the main thing that provides guidance in my life.

This is because I’ve discovered that if something isn’t important to me I don’t give it that much attention. Housework and decorating come under that category. Going out and having fun does not.

I wish I was apologetic, but I’m not. Yes I keep the house clean, it’s never dirty. I do all the sinks, baths, toilets, shower, stuff. I have a wonderful extending duster that makes dusting a joy, and a mini vacuum for small messes and doing cat’s beds. I’m not a sloven. But I do these things because I have to.

All about me

As a person I care deeply about the welfare of others. I did work in business for a while but it made nowhere near as much sense as my time in the NHS. That called to my heart.

This isn’t a criticism of anyone else working in anything else. Business pays the bills, it has its place, every aspect of work adds something to society. Garbage disposal workers are invaluable, they save so many lives by preventing disease.

But we are what we are and I am a people person.

Seat of soul

For me the heart is the seat of the soul energy that animates us. The atoms that make us tick. The blueprint that holds all our information since the dawn of time. It’s something I’ve learned from the teachings I’ve received, that feels right to me.

People will have many opinions on this, but as those beliefs revolve around respect for the self and others, all life matters, everyone has a right to be themselves providing they harm nothing or no one, I’m very comfortable with them.

When I mentor in my groups I support people to find their own way through life, I don’t teach anything, I throw ideas into a pot, we do visualisations, and they take from it what they need.

No human adult can teach another how to be, or who to be, but you can support them to be who they want to be. Just give them the time and space to find out with full and unequivocal support.

This is the first time my work has made sense to me. It is me. I was never good enough and I make sure that people around me know that they’re valued and appreciated just the way they are. If they want help with something I’m there, if not I just love them.

That’s what my heart says, that’s the voice I listen to (apart from my guides), and I have plenty of people in my groups to keep me on track. My chances of ever becoming too thrilled by myself are minimal. We would none of us allow that to happen to each other.

One race, all facing similar struggles, no barriers, no judgement, all in this together.

Listen to your heart – it knows, it’s the most underrated mind in the human body.

Best love

Deb xx

P.S. The human Endocrine System consists of 7 major glands that run the human body, and they all have brain cells. Yes actual brain cells, and those 7 glands communicate with each other, and the brain, to keep us in balance. We’re a walking miracle, and the heart does know!