Honesty

What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

I hate game playing. I’d say that as a psychic I can see you coming a mile away, but the truth is that most people can spot a dissembler when they see one.

Everyone is psychic, fact. Some are more so than others, some develop it as I have, practice makes better and all that. I don’t believe in perfect unless it’s a sunset, rainbow, nature.

Trust me, even kittens are little terrors at times and I’m ‘rather’ fond of them (numbers 13 and 14 in the family line).

We see the truth

When people don’t tell me the truth then act out that truth it grates on my nerves. Out of politeness I’ve always played the game, because it’s very hard to call people out when you know there are layers to any situation and the answers will be complex.

Human isn’t an easy thing to be and a human life isn’t an easy thing to live. But that’s a whole other blog: why it shouldn’t be that way.

In truth there are many great gifts humans can give each other, and love is the greatest of all, but real love can only exist where there is truth and honesty. To be otherwise isn’t loving.

True change

One aspect that would help humanity greatly would be to feel able to say what you feel. Yet I have done this to no avail, I’ve thought mutual agreement has been reached, to discover that the other person has paid lip service to the conversation.

We could all help our societies greatly if we:

• Said what we meant.
• Meant what we said.
• Communicated that with care and consideration.
• Were willing to listen and work together to deal with issues.
• Had the courage and confidence to speak our truth lovingly.
• Didn’t hold on to old beliefs and prejudices.

Saying one thing and doing another never works. You are seen.

Love

But the greatest gift is and always will be the gift of love. Which my two K’s, Kim and Katrina (cast in order of appearance in my life) are capable of in spades. They are truly unconditional. I’m grateful for them beyond measure.

However, that old chestnut that you have to love yourself first is true. You can only give love if you know what it feels like to love yourself as an imperfect human.

That’s why we irritate each other, we remind each other that we’re not perfect.

Let’s just be love – and honesty is a huge component of love

Deb xx