What do you love about where you live?
Where we live is not for us. We haven’t settled.
That’s no disrespect to the area, it’s a purely personal thing. One of those things you can only explain by it not calling to your heart.
Sometimes in life things that should have no reason not to work out brilliantly, just don’t. You can analyse, blame yourself, call yourself an idiot. Ultimately though you just have to listen and accept.
Living here just isn’t for us. That’s it.
Analyse or keep it simple. Blame or realise that blaming a patch of land, another person, and so on, is pointless and powerless. You stay in blame you prevent action.
In knowing we’re not happy here, I can be perfectly content until such times as we can change it. We can’t at the moment due to Tony’s work location. And that’s fine.
I knew for six years I’d leave my first marriage. A friend told me to relax and I would know when the time was right. So I did. In the end I couldn’t have cared less if we’d stayed married. He couldn’t affect me.
One day, out of the blue, I opened my mouth and said “This marriage is over.” I just knew in that moment that it was. There followed a very nice and perhaps our first honest conversation.
I met Tony six weeks later, which either led to the 7th circle of hell or everything I needed to happen to give me the opportunity to be myself. I prefer the second viewpoint.
That told me that the first marriage had indeed run its course. When the time is right we will be able to move on. And we know what we need.
Can’t say fairer than that.
Don’t make what appears to be the wrong decision a drama. it stops you seeing the beauty that is there, the good that you do have.
We’re near the NEC in Birmingham, great shows, fantastic parking. What’s not to love?
Sunny Saturday – if the sun isn’t shining where you are activate it in your heart. Activate it in your third eye and you’ll always see the light.
Deb xx
Deb Hawken - Amorah 