Yesterday something concerned my Spirit Guide, and literal best friend forever, Amos. It was the effect of children being subjected to too much information on gender at a young age.
Not limited to children, the approach to gender is something that can affect our view of ourselves as a woman or man, because heterosexuals have ‘rules’ of how they should be and with all rules stepping outside them causes problems. A strong woman is bossy.
The same goes for men, there are expectations for them now to step outside what it means to be a man and redefine it. Life can be a minefield for a man. A strong man is a bully.
People also have ideas of how gay people should present. The new approaches to gender are doing an excellent job of smashing those boundaries to smithereens.
The true approach to gender
Firstly let’s define it from a spiritual viewpoint. As I’ve said before, there are elements of the Big Bang in our DNA, as such part of us goes back millennia. This would suggest, if you believe in reincarnation (or another visit to the party), that we have been more than one gender during our existence.
Yes DNA indicates how we present now, but our soul blueprint tells a completely different story. It doesn’t need to identify as anything but itself.
I have been drawn to a cisgender, heterosexual life. Yet it would never have occurred to me to rule out a relationship with another woman; nor would it ever have occurred to me to actively seek one. I see no issue either way as long as the feelings are genuine.
Yet I do not feel like a woman, nor can I tell you what being a woman feels like. I know that I have no idea because I’m not limited to that description. My character is quite fluid. I mainly wear jeggings though.
The way it feels to be me is that there is a being inside me that knows what it thinks and isn’t trapped in any single definition of being. It does not need to conform to any rule.
Where this morphs into spiritual gender is that as souls come through more developed they will see less need to conform to gender biases and specific relationships, and they will be as they feel. If that changes they will go with that. To a soul it’s not important, it’s already been every possible pattern.
I’m watching transgender issues develop with interest, as this feels like part of evolution to me. But I’m no expert and won’t comment further. It’s just interesting when you follow this path.
So, soul is who we are, soul is everything, has been everything, and has no problem presenting as it authentically feels. There is no right and wrong in gender. There is only what your mind and body tell you.
The children
Amos often says things that blow my mind, mainly because they’re so obvious that I feel stunned that I didn’t see it.
He was saying that as children develop they are, as we know, a sponge for everything they see and hear. From the ages of 1-7 you’re purely subconscious, that means you’re not thinking you’re absorbing. You’re also way too young to question.
So the children are being subject to any number of visuals about sex and gender, any number of well-known people promoting gender issues that are way above the children’s capacity to understand. This is causing the confusion that has young children going to school thinking they’re transgender.
They’re receiving so much information and input too soon that they’re not able to listen to their own bodies and wait to decide who they are. They are confused as to who and what they should be. Puberty is bad enough without this complication.
There is, of course, a possibility that they’re coming through more gender balanced and this is causing the confusion. They may be more aware of being all things than previous generations.
Years ago there was huge worry about super-models being so thin that they made the slimmest teenage girl feel fat. Now we have a much bigger problem. Well known people actually challenge gender openly, no bad thing, except that for the children they’re not growing up with a simple image until they’re ready for the more complex one.
I would literally never have realised what we’re doing to them by making things so open. By the media and social media telling them too much too soon.
We need to think about these things, be more aware of the messages in our society, and protect the children.
As souls we have a duty to think of others. I hope there are some ideas in here that may support a confused young person until they’re more certain of who they are.
Deb xx
Deb Hawken - Amorah 