The Self

Posted bydebdancingstarhawken7Posted inMental healthTags:,

What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

This isn’t what I could let go of, it’s what I did let go of. This is a warning.

Every single person you give in to will take more of you until there’s nothing left to give. Then you won’t be enough. Nor will they respect you.

Sadly that can include your children, don’t teach them that’s okay.

Every single dream you give away will take a part of you with it.

Allow people to emotionally exhaust you and you won’t have the energy to do more than survive, and that will take everything you have.

Compromise is only right if everyone is compromising. If everyone is prepared to let go of something. The middle ground is the only place to aim for.

If I’m asked to let go of something I care about now, you’d better be prepared to come to that half way point. If you’re not the answer will be a polite no.

One thing I’m grateful I did let go of was the nervous, uncertain me. Obviously the people in my life left with her. They needed my weakness to make them strong. When I left they stood revealed.

This a hard hitting blog. But that question chilled me to the bone, it’s a dangerous question for good people.

Now if you ask what I would happily let go of:

  • War
  • All violence
  • All abuse
  • All prejudice
  • Trolling
  • Tearing others down
  • Poverty
  • All illness
  • Basically anything and everything bad or hurtful

Those things I would part with instantly to restore harmony.

Just never again would I let go of a part of myself. Nor should you. You’ll never be enough if parts of you are missing.

Soothing Sunday

Deb xx

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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