What are you good at?

Seriously, Iām a public speaker. Iām also an inspirational speaker.
In my case this isnāt just about having a theme, creating a plan, and following a structure. It can mean turning up and being taken down an entirely different path as the talk develops. At the end people will often say āit felt like you were talking directly to meā. Which is lovely. Itās good to know that youāve been useful.
I can be structured if I need to. But I do prefer wiggle room to respond to the feeling in the room.
Pluses and minuses
The trouble is that I can get the same thing when Iām in a social gathering. I find myself talking, people are listening, but itās not what the occasion is about.
Iāve learned to handle it by staying quiet and de-tuning so that I donāt pick up subconsciously. it can be done, and itās ethical. I may as well go through your wallet and handbag if Iām also going to accidentally rummage through your mind. Itās unacceptable and I was glad when I was taught how to control it.
It can also be exhausting. If ever youāve walked into a room feeling fine and within minutes you feel low enough to crawl under a snakeās belly with a top hat on – youāre an empath.
Healing voice
I was told by several tutors on my courses that I have a healing voice I had no idea that was even a thing.
Itās about vibrations. Sound carries vibration The vibration of E-sharp can be helpful with headaches.
I walked into a mind, body, spirit stop many years ago. The proprietor commented that I looked strained, I told him that I had an appalling headache. He took us into a room with a crystal singing bowl on a podium in the centre. Told me to stand next to it, picked up a mallet, which is like the pestle of a mortar and pestle, and nothing like a hammer. Crystal/hammer, go figure. š¤£

He ran the wooden mallet around the bowl, it made a beautiful noise. Three minutes later, no headache. Sound vibration just gives our atoms a good shake up and clean.
So my voice drops into a vibration when I speak which is apparently healing for others. As such speaking is almost a dutyā¦which needs to be strictly moderated. Lol.

Love
Iām good at this too. Just wish Iād had more people in my life who wanted it, or knew how to receive it. Fortunately cats do and theyāve made up for a lot.
I also have my groups now whom I literally adore as they well know. Some of the best people this world has to offer. š
I love people. I love animals. I love nature. I love this earth. I love the heavens. I love people you canāt see. I love source energy.
I love.
Deb xx