Rarely

When do you feel most productive?

I’ve spent my entire life fighting either my mind or my life or both. I didn’t learn about going with the flow for decades and once I did I embraced it, but there was a lot of faulty training to undo.

You’ve probably read about the poor emotional background , the shocking state of my family and appalling in-fighting I had to escape.

The first marriage where I was attractive because I was young and malleable and married as ‘cover’. Stealing a young person’s life as a tick box exercise then gaslighting her to keep her in place!?

Then I married a workaholic with a shocking family background who had to walk alone from the age of six and care for his three younger siblings. I have such compassion for that, but it also made me a work widow who has moved away from several groups of very nice people.

Folks don’t stay in touch.

The positives

Fighting your own mind is exhausting. But because of that I learned a different way of thinking and being that has brought so many benefits I can’t tell you! Actual miracles.

I can share those benefits with others. In truth a very small group of people, but it takes real courage to be prepared to listen to something new and take it on board. So the fact that my groups are small doesn’t surprise me, and I have immense respect for them.

They’re flexible thinkers, that’s a great strength and sanity saver. They’re prepared to think and work way outside the box, they’re unlimited thinkers.

I am most in my flow when I’m with them, and at my most productive.

With my cats I’m in my flow, and if cuddling is productive, it’s off the charts!

Happy Sunday

😻

Deb xx