Joy

What’s a secret skill or ability you have or wish you had?

I sometimes get a feeling that wells up from the core of my being that is the purest joy. It comes at unexpected times, often when something is concerning me. Suddenly I’m smiling so hard I think my face will split and I feel wonderful.

In social circles it’s called The Abraham Squeeze. I can’t remember who told me, or why, that just stuck.

My secret skill

Is what I can do for others. It’s not something I can adequately explain, hence it doesn’t ‘sell well’. For some reason I can gain a deep understanding of people. A knowing of what they need.

Told you. It doesn’t sound like much. It doesn’t sound like anything. But for those who engage with it, it definitely helps.

I can sometimes ‘see’ what causes a particular hang up, which may go back way into the past – as in past lives – it’s very odd. Yet when I tell people they give me a puzzled look, then they just stop, and then something clears. It’s the only way I can explain it.

They may walk away wondering what just happened, slightly stunned, but they look different, better, they’re smiling. That weird thing made sense at some level and something has changed inside for the better.

Told you, try putting that in a modern three foot long promotional post where it takes you forty minutes of ‘what I can do for you and what I’m telling you you will get out of it’ before you reach the eye watering amount at the bottom that you can pay in several instalments.

Oddly people do go for those things in their thousands. But the best and most effective people I’ve studied with don’t use them. And what they do works. Generic garbage rarely works, not with the deeper stuff.

You ARE unique.

You can use the generic for career, to build a business, maybe for a bit more confidence, it has its point, but it rarely works when someone feels lost. At that confusing level of suffering. What I’ve been taught to do by Spirit does.

It’s all so simple. Completely personal to you, and oddly, you don’t have to do anything complicated to clear it. No weeks of coaching. No dragging up the past. No repeating everything that hurt. That reinforces the memories. Recreates them. Makes them stronger. Brings them into the now.

So that’s my secret superpower. I have two groups now all of whom have their own version of it.

I know that I have no words for it and no description, because it’s personal to each person, I can take your hand and show you the way. I know that the people for whom this will work will find me. I’m happy with what I’m doing.

It’s accessible to all, literally anyone can afford it. I wish I could make thousands, it would certainly help at the moment. But weird that I may be, not with this work. It has to be accessible. It can be no other way.

I’m often told that my refusal to charge thousands means that I don’t believe in myself. That’s just self justification for what those people do. I don’t have to believe in this work, I watch it work, and it isn’t about me. It’s one hundred percent about you.

With unconditional support from me.

Deb xx