What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
Working in the popular spiritual field is a minefield. Before I continue please note that I fully respect this work and the vast majority of the people who undertake it.
Like all fields, the police being a good example, we have our rotten eggs, and no one loathes them more than us. £850 To repair a tear in your energy field?! You can’t tear an energy field.
Like any profession whose name is called into disrepute, we despair of those people.
I’m most talking about one aspect of a complex whole, further complicated by humans.
Mediumship
Is my favourite aspect, although I’m not working delivering messages at the moment. You have a client, communicators in energetic form, you say what you get. It’s right or it’s wrong, you charge or you don’t.
So that I’m happy with. Where I’m uncomfortable is psychic readings.
Not all psychic readings
It depends on the client. Some genuinely want a bit of insight to work with. They make no specific demands.
Others want to know something precise, about a specific subject, and that’s the thing I don’t like. You answer this question preferably to their specific liking.
It’s not just a horrible pressure, it completely ignores the free will clause, and that makes me deeply uncomfortable for a number of reasons.
Giving away your power
- You’re going to a human being for this reading.
- Humans are not perfect no matter how hard they try.
- Demanding only one thing ignores the ramifications around it. It ignores all the other people with free will that may be involved.
- What you think you want may not be right for you.
- Your answer may not be the one you wasted to receive, but that doesn’t make it wrong.
That’s just some of the issues around doing a reading for someone who hopes against hope that you will have the key that finally frees them in some way. That answers the questions.
Pressures I don’t enjoy If I can just read and then see how it fits for the client that’s fine and authentic. Will my husband leave me has so many potentials it’s a nightmare.
The uncomfortable questions
We all have free will. We may think we want something and then undermine ourselves, thus proving we don’t even whilst insisting that we do.
A psychic reading where you leave the reader free to pick up what they get and say it, can actually be more illuminating than having a specific focus in mind.
Life isn’t simple or linear and a change here can create a tornado over there. A general reading will pick up all the ramifications, shades of grey, potential wins, and emotions involved. It will be far more in depth.
Questions asking another human being, however good they may be, to tell to you what to do are disempowering. Even if you like the reading you may still subconsciously wreck it. After all, if you really wanted to do whatever you asked about, you’d just do it. You wouldn’t need a reading.
If the answers came up when the psychic had no idea about the question, that is so much more powerful.
No human that isn’t you should guide your life.
So those are the questions I don’t want to be asked. In my work I empower you to answer those questions yourself.
I like it that way.
Deb xx
Deb Hawken - Amorah 