Loss

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Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

I find it quite easy to move on in life, I enjoy new experiences. The only thing that I find very hard to move on from is the loss of a loved one or pet. I include friends as loved ones.

That’s at it should be.

An odd form of good fortune

People often feel grief as a negative, yet it’s a weird positive. You wouldn’t have it if you hadn’t had that being in your life. Yes it’s a high price to pay for love, but what would you have missed if you hadn’t had them in your life?

I’d have missed the best of my life.

At the end of the day having that love is the most precious thing, it transcends all the stuff by a million miles, a million smiles.

Once you’re as healed as you can ever be you have a million beautiful memories that make you smile or soften inside every single day. The tears are always there deep down, but love will always be the overriding emotion if you can let it.

A great house or my lost loves back? No contest. I’ll settle for the house and be grateful for the memories that will move there with me. 😔😍💖

A million smiles and a few tears

Do try if you can to focus on the love. Remember that they went through this too and they coped. 💖

You never leave those happy memories behind, they’re who you are, and you’re the better for it.

Weird blessing, but a blessing nonetheless.

Hugs if you’re going through it. When you’re ready, get out your favourite photo, and start reconnecting to the never ending legacy of love. You can hug that inside until you meet again.

Deb xx

Who has over 40 people in Spirit, 8 cats, 5 dogs, 2 guinea pigs, a budgerigar, and a tortoise. Lots of good memories. 💖🐾🦜🐹🐕🐈🐈‍⬛😻🕺💃

Published by debdancingstarhawken7

I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx

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