Why? Why what? Why did you do something? Why are you feeling something? Why aren't you changing something?
Do you know the answers to these questions? If you don't it matters and doesn't matter It doesn't matter because it's okay not to know It matters because you're trying to change What you don't know What that something is
Something you haven't decided on Because you're not in touch With your feelings or your truth Be still and rest Ponder Don't rush and hurry The future will wait for you
If you dash into the future Frantically trying anything and everything You'll be like an unguided Guided missile You could create a huge disaster Anywhere
Work out the why The why you're asking why Don't second-guess the past You did your best as the person you were at the time Don't criticise your younger self That's a waste of more time
The details Career - relationship - house - mess Are unimportant They may feel like everything But they're all small things That can be sorted out Put right Now...
See where you are Decide what you need in your life And do that before you try to change anything Don't take one random or urgent thing in your life And change only that Look at the whole Take an holistic view
When your life works as one thing When every area compliments every other When your life works as a whole (You'll know this as you'll be happy everywhere) Then you will have worked out your why Acted on it And you will reap the benefits
Remember It's never why did I? It's always what do I need and how can I get it?
I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx
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