What’s the coolest thing you’ve ever found (and kept)?
I lost myself for many years. Actually I was seven different people because I was trying to please everyone just to stop being hurt, so you could say I lost me or you could say I lost six of me and found the real one.
Life isn’t just about living in the present, it’s also about being your true self fearlessly, and with love and pride. Yes, we should all feel good about who we are. If you’re not your true self then nothing ever really works. Imagine what it was like living with six versions of myself and trying to be happy being one me.
So the coolest thing I ever found and kept was the real me, apparently normal, quietly crazy, but truly a person I can like.
To find yourself? Go within, shut out the noise, and understand that no matter how close a person is to you, even a parent, no one else has the right to define you, except you.
I'm a writer, public speaker, medium, and spiritual thinker. I suffered from acute anxiety from the age of 16 until I was well into my 50s, when I finally found methods that helped me to put it behind me. My struggles led to me exploring life through poetry, then plays, and over a 15 year period I made notes for a self help book which I published in 2015. Details on the book page. Although I am a psychic medium and loved the work, it didn’t feel right for me. It was an utter privilege, but my path was the exploration of what it means to be spirit in the real world and how we can make practical use of those abilities. Nowadays I write, blog, and teach soul-centred living, which is a gentle way of undoing past programming and connecting to your essential self, or soul. If you’re interested email me and we can chat. No pressure, it’s right for you or it’s not and you will know. The groups meet on line so no going out on cold, wet, winter’s evenings. On a personal note, I’m based in the UK. Married with five cats, no children, and four grandchildren, thanks to our inherited daughter, who has gifted us four beautiful little people that bring us such joy. Hope you enjoy the blogs. Deb xx
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Exactly, Deb. The definition that matters about me is my definition of myself. Amazing thoughts!
Exactly, Deb. The definition that matters about me is my definition of myself. Amazing thoughts!
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That’s real personal power. At one time I allowed others to define me, now I do it myself. 💖
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That’s the great decision we need to do. Hugs, Deb.
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Hugs back x
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