Nothing

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

I’m a very relaxed and open minded person. You can literally ask me anything or tell me anything, I may blink inside, but you’ll never know it. I can always listen.

You can ask me my age, and I won’t lie. It’s a privilege to be here, especially to have been born when I was born, when the world was too shocked to be violent.

I can’t explain it to you but my mindset is and has always been somewhat different. In a similar way to the sizes of an elephant and mouse are a touch dissimilar. That’s been said about me all my life as far back as I can remember. You’re very different. I think it’s a compliment. 🤣

Ask me a question I will either tell you the truth or tell you I can’t answer because I’m sworn to secrecy. Then I will not answer. I’ll never lie to you.

I have never been afraid to be, and reveal the real me. I don’t see why I should because nobody’s perfect so I’m very normal. There are no bodies buried so I have nothing to hide. If you know me, you know me, warts and all (I have no warts), faults and all (I have a few of them).

Often faults and strengths are sides of the same coin. I talk too much at times, but I’m a public speaker. I’ve known people who can’t fill 7 minutes, I can fill two hours and keep an audience with me. Weakness/strength.

I suffer from anxiety and still struggle at times, but that means I empathise with others who aren’t finding this world easy even if people think they should. You can have millions but your heart and mind are what counts. They’re broken, money can’t fix them. I’ll try. I can listen to anyone and hear their story.

My anxiety gave me my greatest strength: compassion.

Especially as I’m a voice for peace, inclusion, respect, and healing. I don’t open my mouth on a stage, or in group unless I’m trying to help. It’s also quite a unique voice in its way. Very simple because I like to make problem solving easy.

Such as pointing out that world peace can be achieved whether those who think I’m nuts like it or not.

It…IS…possible. Everything is possible so peace is. You see, I’ll even tell you that I’m one of those liberal snowflakes that believe that everyone has the right to a happy, peaceful, well fed life, where everyone has enough, but not too much. There’s more to go around that way.

Okay so that may not be easy.

I’ll tell you something else you can take to the bank, as we say. I’m not going to change. No matter how angry the angry are, no matter how much they think I’m wrong, deluded, that I’ve lost my mind, that I’m a looney leftie.

Not killing children and innocents is not lunacy, killing them is.

In the words of a song from the greatest Showman: “This is me…it’s who I want to be.” This is my truth.

This is the one thing where I will say that I know I’m right. I agree I have no idea how we can stop the violent and war mongers, I’m not stupid enough to believe that if someone says stop it, they will, but I do know they’re wrong.

So there you have it, I’m not actually a lefty by the way, I’m straight down the centre waiting to see what will happen. I’ve even tried seeing the sense of Trump but he’s not helping. I did try though.

Ultimately: if you behave with kindness and respect why should you need to hide anything?

I’ve made it a policy never to do something so bad I have to hide it. I’ve also got cramp from crossing my fingers and praying that I will always keep my word.

Three simple tips

• You are the only power in your life. Don’t give it away.
• Dreams are the reality you haven’t created yet, create them.
• If you don’t believe you deserve the best you won’t get it. You will take actions that ensure that. There is NO reason you don’t deserve the best. None. Mistakes can be rectified, learned from, left behind. Believe, imagine, decide, create. You are worth it.
• Okay four, the impossible is possible if you choose to believe that. The belief is all that’s necessary, either way. Choose happily.

Love and more love

Deb xx