Yes…But…

Are you a good judge of character?

It’s one thing to be able to sense who a person is, but judgement makes me uncomfortable. A person may be truly unpleasant but we must always ask why.

Strong intuition

I prefer that term to just women’s intuition as men are no slouches either. My dad could read people like a book. There are as many good male psychics as female. Intuition is stronger in some areas for women and others for men.

If you truly have strong intuition though you will see the pain below the surface, and good in people who think they’re bad.

Oddly there was a highly appropriate typo there – God in people who think they’re bad. Light in the darkness.

Zero tolerance

Always asking why doesn’t mean accepting poor behaviour. Ever. Tell them, tell them again, tell them again, walk!

It’s one thing to see and acknowledge the pain, another to accept how it manifests.

Be kind, be compassionate, but don’t be self sacrificing. In other words don’t be stupid. If everyone you know tells you they’re a bad ‘un, listen. Never make excuses. If someone hits you once, they’re done.

If they’re really sorry they will seek help and stop.

Anyone can be fooled

Never believe you can’t, that’s dangerous.

I’m pretty good, but also cautious.

However, I’ve met way more good people than otherwise in this life. Way more.

Happy Sunday

Deb xx